What Is a Parenting Plan?
If you are separating in Victoria and need to document arrangements for your children, a parenting plan can provide a practical framework for moving forward.
A parenting plan is a written agreement between parents about the care, welfare and development of their children after separation.
This guide explains how parenting plans work in Victoria, what to include, and when legally binding consent orders may be a better option.
A parenting plan can cover:
- where the children live
- when they spend time with each parent
- school holiday arrangements
- communication rules
- health and education decisions
- transport arrangements
- review processes
Is a Parenting Plan Legally Binding in Victoria?
A parenting plan is not legally enforceable in the same way as consent orders. However, it can still be very useful where parents can cooperate and want a practical agreement that can evolve over time.
What Should a Parenting Plan Include?
A good parenting plan should clearly set out:
- weekly arrangements
- school holiday and special-day arrangements
- communication arrangements
- decision-making processes
- changeovers and transport
- a review process if circumstances change
When a Parenting Plan May Be Enough
A parenting plan may work well where:
- both parents are communicating reasonably well
- the arrangements are straightforward
- flexibility is important
- there is a low risk of non-compliance
When Consent Orders May Be Better
Consent orders may be a better option where:
- the agreement needs legal enforceability
- conflict remains high
- the issues are more complex
- there is concern about future compliance
Parenting Plans and Mediation in Victoria
Many Victorian parents use mediation to work through parenting arrangements after separation. Mediation helps keep the focus on the children and on practical, workable outcomes.
Frequently Asked Questions
Does a parenting plan need to be signed?
It should be in writing, signed and dated by both parents.
Can it be changed later?
Yes. Parenting plans are flexible and can be updated.
Is mediation required before court in Victoria?
In many parenting matters, parties are generally required to attempt family dispute resolution before court, subject to exceptions.
Speak with Mediations Australia
A parenting plan can be a practical way for Victorian parents to record child-focused arrangements after separation without immediately escalating to court.
If you need help reaching agreement, Mediations Australia can help you work through parenting issues in mediation.
