

In Australia, a parenting plan is a voluntary written agreement developed between separated parents that outlines their parenting arrangements for their children. Governed by the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth), particularly under Section 63C, parenting plans can encompass various aspects of parental responsibility, such as with whom the child will live, with whom they will spend time, and how they will communicate with each parent.
Parenting plans are tailored to the unique needs of each family, covering a range of issues affecting their children’s welfare, including education, health, religion, and extracurricular activities. Importantly, while not legally enforceable on their own, these plans can serve as evidence of prior arrangements if court orders are sought in the future.
For a parenting plan to be recognized under Australian law, it must meet several legal requirements:
Securing independent legal advice is strongly recommended to ensure both parents understand their rights and obligations before finalizing the agreement. This practice aligns with best legal compliance standards and promotes informed consent.
Creating a parenting plan provides numerous advantages for separated parents. By clearly outlining agreements, it helps minimize conflict and offers a predictable framework for children’s living arrangements, education, and emotional support. Below are some key benefits:
The best interests of the child is the paramount consideration in family law matters, as enshrined in the Family Law Act. When drafting a parenting plan, it is crucial that parents carefully consider:
Example Clause: “The parents agree that all decisions regarding the child’s schooling will consider the child’s preferences and ensure that they continue to excel academically and socially.”
One of the significant advantages of parenting plans is their inherent flexibility. Unlike court orders, which can be rigid and difficult to alter, parents can adapt a parenting plan to accommodate specific circumstances as they evolve over time.
Example Scenario: If a parent’s work schedule changes, the parenting plan can be modified to reflect this new arrangement, ensuring that both parents remain actively involved in their child’s life.
When developing a parenting plan, it is essential to include various key components that reflect the needs of the child and the parents. These elements may include:
Clearly specifying living arrangements and the division of parenting time helps clarify expectations.
Example Clause: “The child will primarily reside with the mother during the school week but will spend every alternate weekend with the father from Friday evening to Sunday evening.”
Establishing a communication protocol encourages respectful dialogue between parents, helping them make significant decisions about the child’s welfare.
Example Clause: “Parents will communicate via email for all discussions relating to any significant medical or educational decisions and will respond within 48 hours.”
The financial responsibilities of both parents must be delineated to prevent misunderstandings.
Example Clause: “Each parent will contribute equally to any unexpected medical expenses, while child support will be administered according to the Child Support Agency assessment.”
Including a provision for resolving conflicts can help mitigate potential disputes.
Example Clause: “In the event of disagreements regarding the parenting plan, the parents agree to engage in mediation before considering legal action.”
Incorporating a timeline for regular reviews allows parents to adapt to changes in circumstances harmoniously.
Example Clause: “The parents will review this parenting plan every 12 months to ensure its relevance, and any modifications must be documented in writing and signed by both parties.”
Dated: ________________
Parent 1: ______________________________
Email: _______________________________
Phone: ______________________________
Address: _____________________________
Parent 2: ______________________________
Email: _______________________________
Phone: ______________________________
Address: _____________________________
This parenting plan applies to the following child/children:
Name: _____________________________ Date of Birth: _______________
Name: _____________________________ Date of Birth: _______________
This parenting plan is based on our joint recognition that we will both be parenting our child/children for the rest of our lives. We acknowledge that it is in our child’s/children’s best psychological, emotional, and physical well-being that we continue to share parenting responsibilities and privileges.
The purpose of this plan is to provide a practical framework for us to raise our child/children to the best of our abilities. This document is intended to be flexible, as we understand that we will need to adapt to changing circumstances to ensure all parenting decisions remain in our child’s/children’s best interests.
We commit to:
We will share joint legal custody, with equal shared parental responsibility for all major long-term decisions affecting our child/children.
The following decisions will be made jointly by both parents:
Process for educational decisions:
Medical appointments: We will coordinate scheduling and share responsibility for taking our child/children to appointments.
Emergencies: In cases of medical emergency, the child/children shall be cared for immediately and the other parent notified as soon as possible. Either parent may consent to emergency medical treatment without waiting for the other parent’s consent.
Agreement: Neither parent will indoctrinate or guide the child/children toward religious practice without the consent of the other parent.
Each parent will be responsible for day-to-day decisions during their own parenting time.
Process for activity decisions:
Both parents agree that it is critical to be flexible while still respecting the need for advance notice of schedule changes.
Regular Weekly Schedule: [Detail specific weekly schedule here – example:
The holiday schedule takes precedence over the regular parenting schedule. See the Holiday Schedule Table at the end of this document for specific arrangements.
School vacation days will follow the Holiday Schedule Table at the end of this document. Any vacation periods not specified will follow the regular parenting schedule or be agreed upon by both parents.
The child/children will have their own room at both parents’ homes. Neither home should be presented as the child’s/children’s primary residence.
The parent whose parenting time is ending is responsible for transporting the child/children to the other parent or to school/daycare. If the child/children are at school or daycare before a change in parenting time, the parent beginning their time will pick up the child/children.
Primary method: [Email/Text/Phone/Co-parenting app]
Regular communication expectations:
Guidelines for communication:
The traveling parent will facilitate regular communication between the child/children and the other parent.
Both parents recognize that successful co-parenting requires effective communication. Each parent agrees to attend individual therapy sessions (at least twice monthly for 6 months) to address any issues that impede open and productive communication.
Each parent has the right to:
Each parent shall provide directly to the other parent:
Decisions regarding care during parents’ work hours shall be made:
The selection of work-related child care providers shall be made jointly.
All child care providers shall be given both parents’ contact information, plus alternative emergency contacts: [Names] _______________ and _______________
The parent requiring child care during their parenting time is responsible for arranging and paying for it.
Decisions regarding guidelines/expectations and consequences/discipline for major infractions shall be made jointly. Major infractions include:
Parents will maintain consistency in:
Homework: _________________________________
Curfews: __________________________________
Bedtimes: _________________________________
Phone/Screen Usage: ________________________
Chores: ___________________________________
Other: ___________________________________
Each parent is responsible for everyday discipline during their parenting time, while maintaining general consistency with the other parent’s approach.
Both parents shall support the child’s/children’s relationships with members of the other parent’s family without restrictions.
Both parents shall be entitled and encouraged to:
Any decision to move the child’s/children’s residence shall be based on the best interests of the child/children. Parents agree to:
If a dispute arises regarding this parenting plan, parents will:
If agreement on an expert cannot be reached, the mediator will provide a list of 5 neutral experts, each parent may strike 2, and the remaining individual will be selected.
This parenting plan shall be reviewed:
Changes to this plan shall be:
We acknowledge that this Parenting Plan represents our genuine agreement about the care arrangements for our child/children. We commit to implementing these arrangements in good faith and in the best interests of our child/children.
Parent 1: __________________________ Date: __________
Parent 2: __________________________ Date: __________
Witness: __________________________ Date: __________
The family court process in Australia is a formal legal avenue used when parties are unable to reach an amicable agreement through alternative methods such as parenting plans, consent orders, or financial agreements. This process, which also handles cases involving breach of family court order, is typically initiated in the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia and is governed by specific legal rules and procedures.
It’s important to note that court proceedings are generally considered a last resort, only pursued after all other efforts to reach an agreement have been exhausted, including attempts through legal representation and mediation. The court strongly encourages parties to explore alternative dispute resolution methods, particularly mediation, before resorting to litigation, especially for matters related to property division and parenting arrangements.
If legal action is taken in the Federal Circuit & Family Court of Australia, the following is a synopsis of what will happen and how the court procedure will work (as opposed to an out-of-court settlement).
On September 1, 2021, the Federal Circuit and the Family Court of Australia merged to form the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (FCFCA). The Family Law Rules are the current set of rules that regulate the family court system.
As a result of the merger, the family law system has experienced considerable structural changes. There is now a single point of entry into the court system for all actions, as well as a new case management pathway, synchronized family law norms, and a greater emphasis on pre-action procedures and dispute resolution (mediation). In other words, the court has once again emphasized the importance of mediation to resolve family law dispiutes.
The new system’s main purpose is to produce a more efficient justice system that aids parties in moving through the process as quickly, safely, and fairly as possible.
The following case management method will apply to all applications presented in the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia, with the exception of those designated to specialised lists such as the Covid-19 List, the Evatt List, child support, child maintenance, and divorce proceedings.
All problems that cannot be resolved through the new case management pathway will be scheduled for a Final Hearing within 12 months of the proceedings beginning.
At the initial court appearance, the Court will triage the case, validate that the pre-action procedures were followed, and establish a case management strategy for the case.
In parental matters, the Court will order the creation of a Child Impact Report and, if needed, the appointment of an Independent Children’s Lawyer. After obtaining the Child Impact Report, the Court may schedule an Interim Hearing and subsequently a compliance check. After then, the court may issue orders compelling the parties to appear before a dispute resolution hearing. If conflict mediation is not appropriate or does not resolve the dispute, the Court will convene a compliance and readiness hearing before setting a trial date.
The Court may impose orders requiring full and open disclosure, the compilation of assessments in cases where property value is challenged, and attendance at mediation in financial procedures. When necessary, the court will evaluate whether the matter is appropriate for arbitration. If the disagreement cannot be addressed through mediation, the Court will hold a compliance and readiness hearing, after which a trial date will be determined.
An initial application may seek interim and ultimate orders. If just final orders are filed, the court will not make any orders until the Final Hearing. In most parenting situations, the applicant will seek interim parental orders. In most property proceedings, interim orders are not required unless there are severe difficulties that must be resolved before the Final Hearing.
A parenting application must be accompanied by an affidavit and a Notice of Risk.
A financial application must include an affidavit and a financial statement.
Several new documents must be filed with an application for parental or financial orders under the new system, including the following:
The documents indicated above are in addition to those required when requesting parenting or financial orders.
Pre-action procedures have the purpose of requiring parties to exhaust all opportunities for resolving the problem, or at the very least narrowing the issues that require a judicial ruling, before going to court.
Anyone filing an application, anyone responding to an application, and their lawyers are all subject to the pre-action procedures.
Parties should not take legal action unless all pre-action conditions have been met, which include the following:
The usual exceptions to the pre-action procedures include genuine urgency or the inability to complete the preceding acts safely.
When applying for parental or financial orders, the applicant must present a genuine steps certificate verifying that they followed the pre-action processes and made a genuine effort to resolve the conflict.
The Court may impose costs on the non-complying party or, where appropriate, their counsel if they fail to follow all of the pre-action proceedings.
The Court will evaluate each party’s compliance with the pre-action steps when deciding the case management pathway of a matter. If a party fails to follow a pre-action procedure, for example, the court may refuse to proceed with the application until the non-compliance is resolved.
Parties shall offer complete and open disclosure of all relevant facts about the issues under dispute.
The obligation of complete and open disclosure must be met prior to the start of judicial proceedings.
Among the records that must be produced in financial matters are a list of assets, obligations, superannuation, and all papers in that party’s custody and control relating to the property pool, each party’s financial status, and any other document relevant to an issue in dispute.
In parental issues, all medical reports, school reports, other types of reports etc related to a contested issue, must be disclosed.
Failure to provide timely and thorough disclosure to the other party can result in serious consequences, including contempt of court.
Before initiating an application, you must make a genuine effort to address the problem by doing the following things, according to the new family law standards:
If you do not follow the procedures outlined above before filing an application, you may face serious consequences, including the enforcement of costs orders against you and your lawyer.
While the parties wait for the Final Hearing, an Interim Hearing permits them to resolve any pressing issues through interim orders. The orders are only meant to be temporary until the Court has had a chance to evaluate all of the evidence, hear cross-examination from the parties, and convene a Final Hearing.
Interim hearings usually take no longer than two (2) hours. At an Interim Hearing, a Judge’s decision will be based on the parties’ affidavits and any other independent evidence they offer to the court (e.g. reports or subpoena records). Cross-examination (oral evidence) is not permitted at the Interim Hearing unless there are exceptional circumstances and for a specific cause.
At an Interim Hearing, the Court is not in a position to make determinations (findings) about the facts of the case (i.e. what is true and what is not true).
Simply said, a court cannot decide whether party A or party B is telling the truth when they differ about the truth of a fact or facts in a case (these are known as disputes of fact).
As you might expect, when a case goes to court, the parties frequently have significant factual conflicts as a result of conflicting charges leveled against each other. This puts a Judge in a difficult position during an Interim Hearing because they must make a decision (Judgement) based on the evidence presented to them and issue temporary orders until the majority of the facts are disputed at a Final Hearing (which might take twelve to fifteen months or longer). At an Interim Hearing, the Judge is expected to make a decision based on the acknowledged facts, as well as any independent material that has been provided, and assign it the proper weight.
This implies that in a parenting matter, the Courts carefully consider any claim made by one party against the other that, if true, would make the Court concerned about the safety of the children in that party’s custody. As a result, if the parties have serious factual disagreements, the Courts will always move cautiously in the orders they issue in an Interim Hearing to safeguard the children from physical and/or psychological harm until the parties’ evidence can be ‘tried’ at a final hearing. When a party presents independent evidence to back up their claim, the Court is more inclined to accept the claim seriously. In any situation, the child’s best interests take precedence above the interests of each of the parties. This does not mean that the Judge has already decided whether a party’s allegation is true; rather, the Court will always err on the side of caution until it has had the opportunity to thoroughly examine all of the evidence, listen to the parties’ cross-examination, and make decisions on the facts of the case at a Final Hearing.
Orders for the children’s living arrangements, the occupation of the matrimonial home, interim spousal maintenance, litigation funding orders, injunctions to protect property, and orders to progress the case, such as the appointment of an Independent Children’s Lawyer and the preparation of a Family Report, may be made at an interim hearing.
A lawyer appointed by the court to advocate the best interests of children is known as an Independent Children’s Lawyer (ICL). An ICL is appointed if the Court deems there are good reasons for their appointment.
Allegations of child abuse, concerns about the parties’ mental health and/or parenting capacity, religious and cultural issues, where one of the parties is not the biological parent of the children, where an older sibling is rejecting one parent, where there is a proposal to separate the siblings, or where the parties are in intractabl are the most common reasons for appointing an Independent Children’s Lawyer.
The ICL does not take orders from the children, but rather represents their theoretical best interests by conducting their own investigations, separate from those conducted by the parties, and arranging for the preparation of certain reports that will assist the Court in determining what orders are in the best interests of the children.
The Family Report process begins with an interview with the parties, their children, and their significant others, followed by a detailed report in which the psychologist or family consultant draws conclusions and makes recommendations based on those conclusions about what orders are in the best interests of the children.
The Family Report Writer may be designated by the Court or by the parties jointly (a report writer will only be appointed by and paid for by the court if the parties financial circumstances are such that the Court deems that they are not in a position to pay for the Family Report).
The Family Report is a very essential piece of evidence in general, according to the Court. It is frequently the only (or one of the few) independent pieces of evidence the Court has at an interim hearing stage to guide them as to what interim orders are in the best interests of the children until they can examine all of the evidence in detail at a Final Hearing.
At a Final Hearing, the weight given to the Family Report will vary depending on what each party says during cross-examination of the report writer and if the Court accepts the report writer’s findings.
The Court is not obligated to follow the report writer’s recommendations and make orders based on them. The Court will make its own decision after hearing all of the evidence at a Final Hearing, which may or may not differ from the family report’s conclusions and recommendations.
The Final Hearing is conducted by a judge from Australia’s Federal Circuit and Family Court. Prior to the Final Hearing, the parties and witnesses will file affidavits. During the Final Hearing, the parties and all other witnesses, including the family report writer, will testify and be cross-examined about their Affidavits’ testimony. Each party will retain a Barrister to lead the proceedings at the Final Hearing. The Barristers will make submissions summarising the evidence, their client’s argument, and why the Court should give the orders sought by their client at the conclusion of the Final Hearing.
On the day of the Final Hearing, the Judge rarely makes a ruling (ex tempore). The Judge will normally reserve judgement and issue the decision at a later date, usually 2 or 3 months later.
A final hearing will be held in only 3% of cases. A case’s journey to the Final Hearing stage can take up to two years.
After a Court process has begun, the parties can negotiate a final agreement and have it formalised by the Court at any time. If this occurs, the Court will issue Final Orders based on the parties’ agreement, pending the determination of whether the orders are just and equitable (property) or in the best interests of the children (children).
Approximately 97 percent of court cases settle before a final hearing.
Reaching an agreement with your former spouse over your property may have advantages such as allowing you to make the best decisions for your situation and reducing the financial and emotional consequences of court processes. With the help of a conflict resolution service or a lawyer, you might be able to reach an agreement without going to court. At Mediations Australia, we can obviously help you.
The Family Law Act allows you and your spouse to finalise your arrangements through a financial agreement or consent orders if you and your spouse can agree on how your property and finances should be distributed. You must apply within one year of the end of your de facto relationship or two years of the conclusion of your divorce. You can only apply after this period if there are special circumstances and the court approves it. The Act also lays forth the fairness criteria that the court will consider when considering whether your agreement is reasonable.
If you can’t agree on how to share your property, the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia can issue financial orders (FCFCA). It is in your best interests to get legal advice before signing any agreement or orders to ensure that you understand your legal rights and responsibilities.
The Family Law Act permits married or de facto couples to create a legally binding agreement about their financial arrangements if their relationship ends. These provisions apply to de facto couples in Western Australia under the Family Court Act 1997. (WA).
Agreements can be signed before, during, or after the commencement of a major partnership (prenuptial agreements are sometimes used, but the formal term is financial agreement). A person cannot enter into a new financial arrangement if they are a party to another legal and current one. If you want the agreement to be legally enforceable, you must both have your own lawyer who has given you separate legal and financial advice before signing it.
A consent order is a written agreement that has been approved by the court.
You do not have to present in court to request consent orders. You have the option of hiring a lawyer to prepare the application and draught the orders for you, or you can do it yourself. There are online forms accessible.
When you sign a drafting consent order, you are expressing that you agree with the orders and that you will follow the document’s contents. If the judge approves the draughts orders, they will have the same effect as orders made after a court hearing. Property transfers or sales, spousal support, and superannuation division are all examples of financial orders that can be dealt with by consent orders.
Couples who desire to file for consent orders must meet the standards of the Family Law Act. Before issuing the orders, the court must be satisfied that they are properly prepared and that the terms of the agreement are reasonable. The court will consider the application and, if the orders are granted, each party will get a sealed consent order document as proof of approval. You will be contacted and requested to provide additional information if the court has any reservations or questions about the evidence in your application. The court will notify you if your orders are not authorized.
One of the aims of the court when issuing consent orders is to ensure that they are definitive. As a result, it is extremely difficult to reverse property consent orders. To do so, you must establish that your agreement was made through deception or fraud, or that following the directions is impractical (not merely inconvenient), or that unique circumstances involving the relationship’s children have happened.
As mentioned previously, most parenting and/or property settlement proceedings will take at least eighteen months to reach the Hearing stage. Unfortunately, some cases have been in the system for more than 2 1/2 years due to the time it takes to get a case listed for a Final Hearing.
However, the 18 to 2 1/2-year time frame does not account for any concerns of complexity that may arise throughout the court procedures, which could create further delays in the matter being scheduled for a Final Hearing. It also disregards any further interim petitions filed by the parties during the Court proceedings and prior to the Final Hearing. In family court procedures, urgent issues frequently develop, forcing a party to file an interim application (also known as an application in a case) and request a fresh Interim Hearing so that the Court can address those issues that they believe cannot wait until a trial.
These reasons could cause a three-year or longer wait for a Final Hearing.
Due to current court system delays, courts are unwilling to allow parties a second interim hearing unless there is a compelling explanation and a necessity for it.
Court proceedings are very expensive. Parties in the 3% of cases that make it to a Final Hearing can expect to pay between $60,000 and $150,000. This does not include any expenditures orders made by the court. Charges can sometimes escalate over this threshold due to delays and complexity.
Additionally, there are psychological expenses. This procedure can be incredibly stressful and emotionally and psychologically draining for all parties involved, particularly the children.
Finally, there are the costs of time. As previously said, court proceedings frequently take two (2) years to reach a hearing conclusion. This does not include the time spent negotiating before filing an application with the court.
We recommend that you seek legal advice from a family lawyer and carefully consider all of the costs of going to court, including not only the financial charges, but also the time and emotional costs.
Mediation is a type of Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR), which is an out-of-court technique of resolving disputes between two or more parties. Family Dispute Resolution, often known as Family Mediation, is a sort of mediation that is specifically developed for child-related issues, property settlements, divorce, and child support.
A mediator usually assists both parties in achieving an amicable agreement. Unlike the legal process, a resolution is not determined by a Judge and imposed on one or both parties. If the parties cannot agree on a common solution, the dispute will remain unresolved.
Mediations Australia approaches each case individually, using various strategies, depending on the circumstances and people involved. We like to think of ourselves as facilitators of creative problem-solving!
Each issue must first be assessed to see if it is acceptable for mediation and, if so, what type of mediation is required.
Despite the fact that mediation is a professional subject, a typical mediation session has no established criteria. We will generally work through the following processes throughout our meetings: creating and agreeing on ground rules for the mediation, each side giving their experience, and then working together.
There are various compelling reasons to select mediation as a means of resolving or narrowing a disagreement, particularly when considering the delays and costs associated with the court system:
Family law disputes can become worse over time. We highly recommend that you seek initial legal advice from one of our family lawyers at Mediations Australia. We offer a free initial consultation with one of our family lawyers and if necessary at that point, can arrange for you to have a further free consultation with one of our family law mediators. We have a team of family lawyers and mediators who can assist you in Canberra, Perth, Adelaide, Melbourne, Sydney, and all other locations in Australia. Get legal advice from us today!
Going through separation is tough enough. The right co-parenting app can make shared parenting smoother, reduce conflict, and keep your children’s wellbeing at the centrr of everything.
Separated parents face unique challenges: coordinating schedules across two households, managing shared expenses, and maintaining clear communication while emotions run high.
In Australia, family courts expect parents to work together in their children’s best interests. The right technology can help you meet these expectations while reducing stress for everyone involved.
Key benefits:
If parenting can be hard, parenting after a separation can be exponentially harder.
To do it well, take advantage of all the help you can get. One form of help available to you is a co-parenting app.
In the eyes of Australian family law, co-parenting is not merely beneficial but often a legal expectation, with the well-being of children at its core. Courts recognize that a child’s emotional well-being is significantly enhanced when they maintain consistent relationships with both parents following a separation or divorce. This legal tenet underscores the belief that all children deserve stableness and the continuous love and guidance of both their parents, regardless of the parents’ relationship status.
Moreover, failure in co-parenting isn’t just a personal shortcoming—it can have legal repercussions. Should one parent show a reluctance to engage in co-parenting, it can lead to a reassessment of custody arrangements and potentially result in loss of custody. This legal perspective fosters a culture where the active participation in co-parenting is ingrained not only as a moral commitment but also a legal one.
When co-parenting is approached with the children’s best interest at heart, the benefits manifest in various aspects of their lives. Children thrive in environments where predictability and support are the norm, and effective co-parenting sets the stage for such an environment. This stability is crucial for their emotional and psychological development, enabling a smoother transition through what can be a tumultuous chapter in their young lives.
Additionally, co-parenting reinforces the concept that parental separation need not equate to parental absence. By working together effectively, parents can prevent parental alienation and maintain healthy family relationships. Children who see their parents collaborating and communicating effectively receive reassurance that they are still a unit in parenting, even though they are separated. Apps that focus on shared parenting schedules, medical records management, and easy communication can refine the co-parenting process, making the benefits for the children even more palpable.
From the perspective of separated parents (including separated under one roof), co-parenting isn’t just about fulfilling a court order; it’s about crafting a harmonious parenting alliance that benefits everyone involved. Sharing decision-making and parenting responsibilities ensures that both parents remain integral to their child’s life post-separation, with each contributing to the child’s growth and welfare.
Co-parents who work together effectively can maintain a positive relationship, fostering a sense of shared identity and purpose that is fundamentally centered on the child’s best interests. Navigating co-parenting through the use of sophisticated apps can play a significant role in achieving this. These tools offer features like custody schedules, expense tracking, and to-do lists, which simplify the logistical aspects of parenting from separate households. This harmonized approach contributes not only to the child’s stable upbringing but also to the parents’ peace of mind, knowing that their parenting partnership is functioning optimally for their child’s future.
Co-parenting beats at the heart of modern family dynamics, particularly after separation or divorce. In an ever-connected digital society, various tools and apps are adept at simplifying the complex elements of sharing parenting responsibilities. Co-parenting apps, judiciously crafted for divorced, separated, or never-married parents, concentrate on enhancing communication channels and enabling effective coordination in raising children together. Hinging on the principle of co-parenting with ease, these applications facilitate tasks such as expense tracking, managing custody schedules, and preserving necessary communication records—all in one secure space.
Since its inception in 2001, OurFamilyWizard has been a pioneering force in the realm of co-parenting applications, setting a precedent for how separated parents can communicate harmoniously and share essential family information. By creating a centralized platform, these apps ensure that the co-parents’ interactions are exclusively family-focused when they are logged in, which promotes a streamlined approach to organization and coordination. To this end, the integral features of these inclusive tools comprise shared calendars for scheduling, direct messaging for unwavering communication, and specialized tools for joint oversight of expenditures.
Additionally, platforms like 2Houses and WeParent extend beyond the norm with innovative characteristics such as custody scheduling support for recurring happenings, calendar synchronization, and granting access to family law professionals, such as collaborative lawyers or mediators. These functionalities not only keep both parents in the loop but also provide an avenue for legal and therapeutic advisors to assist in the co-parenting process.
Through the lens of co-parenting in Australia, these digital solutions are not a luxury but a necessity facilitating transparent parenting partnerships. Whether it’s the fidelity of clothing sizes for growing children, the accuracy of tracking shared medical expenditures, or the assurance of maintaining a clean language environment with profanity filters, these apps are the stalwarts in a co-parent’s digital toolkit.
These apps let you:
Create your ideal changeover calendar, check it easily and make adjustments as necessary.
Certain co-parenting apps let you go beyond those tasks, with tools to help parents document agreements, track expenses, and more.
At the end of the day, these apps help parents work together from a distance, and they promote civility.
Given all this, the dilemma often isn’t whether co-parents should use an app but which one they should use.
When it comes to co-parenting, one of the biggest challenges is managing schedules and ensuring effective communication between both parents. Luckily, there are several apps available in Australia that can help make this process much smoother and more efficient. Here are the most common co-parenting apps.
Why we love it: Purpose-built for Australian families with legal-grade parenting plan templates.
Best for: Creating formal parenting agreements and tracking actual vs. planned parenting time
Key features:
Pricing: Free with limitations, $97 USD/year or $17/month Australian focus: High – designed specifically for Australian legal requirements
Why we love it: Every interaction is recorded and legally verifiable.
Best for: Parents expecting future court proceedings or dealing with difficult communication
Key features:
Pricing: $24.99 USD/month per person (Premium) Important: Both parents must use the app – you can’t use it alone
Why we love it: Widely recognized by legal professionals and courts globally.
Best for: Families working with lawyers, mediators, or court orders
Key features:
Pricing
The article states pricing starts at $144USD/year, with additional paid options for more features or users.
Official pricing in July 2025 confirms individual parent subscriptions are needed, listed at $144USD/year, with other plans and add-ons available. No free version for parents, but limited free accounts for children/relatives. Fee waivers exist for those in hardship.
Unlimited secure storage, but higher storage (3GB+: $25–$41/year extra)
Why we love it: When one parent pays, the other gets free access.
Best for: Parents wanting to encourage their ex to try an app
Key features:
Pricing: $9.99 USD/month, $99.99/year, or $199.99 lifetime Missing: Private journaling and comprehensive child information storage
Why we love it: Completely free for basic co-parenting functions.
Best for: Budget-conscious parents or those wanting to test app-based co-parenting
Key features:
Pricing: Free (small transaction fees for payments)
Why we love it: 30-day free trial with no credit card required.
Best for: Parents unsure about committing to paid apps
Key features:
Pricing: $9.99 USD/month or $99/year Missing: Parenting journal and child information center
As a separated parent, you have a lot of important documents to keep track of, from legal agreements to medical records and school reports. Staying organized and having easy access to these documents is crucial for effective co-parenting. Thankfully, there are apps available in Australia that can help you keep all your important documents organized in one place.
One such app is Evernote. This versatile app allows you to create digital notes and store documents, photos, and audio recordings. You can easily categorize your notes and documents into different notebooks or tags, making it simple to find what you need. Evernote also offers a powerful search feature, so you can quickly locate specific documents or information. Additionally, you can access your notes and documents from any device with an internet connection, ensuring that you always have your important documents at your fingertips.
Another helpful app for organizing documents is Dropbox. This cloud storage app allows you to securely store and share your documents with ease. You can create folders and subfolders to organize your documents based on categories or dates. Dropbox also offers a search function, so you can quickly locate specific files. One of the great features of Dropbox is that you can invite your former partner to collaborate on shared documents, such as school calendars or medical records. This promotes transparency and ensures that both parents have access to important information.
For parents who prefer a more comprehensive solution, the app Family Sharing Organizer can be a great choice. This app not only allows you to organize and store documents, but also provides a platform for managing schedules, tracking expenses, and communicating with your former partner. You can create a digital library to store all your important documents, such as custody agreements, school records, and medical information. The app also offers a search function, making it easy to find specific documents when you need them. Family Sharing Organizer promotes co-parenting collaboration and ensures that both parents have access to important documents and information.
Keeping your important documents organized is essential for effective co-parenting. By utilizing apps like Evernote, Dropbox, or Family Sharing Organizer, you can have peace of mind knowing that all your documents are securely stored and easily accessible. Take advantage of these technological tools to simplify the process of managing important documents and ensure smooth communication between co-parents. With these apps, you can focus on what matters most – providing the best possible future for your children.
Navigating a separation can often feel isolating, but it’s important to remember that you’re not alone. There are numerous support groups and resources available in Australia to help separated parents through this challenging time. Connecting with these support networks can provide you with the guidance, understanding, and encouragement you need to navigate the separation process.
One valuable resource is the Relationships Australia website, which offers a wealth of information and resources for separated parents. They provide advice on co-parenting, child support, legal options, and more. The website also has a directory of local Relationships Australia centers, where you can find support services and workshops specifically designed for separated parents.
Beyond the internet, support groups offer an invaluable opportunity to connect with others who are going through or have been through similar experiences. The Divorce and Separation Support Group on Meetup.com is a great platform to find local support groups in your area. These groups provide a safe and confidential space to share your struggles, learn from others, and gain emotional support. Meeting face-to-face with others who understand your challenges can be incredibly empowering and comforting.
If you prefer the convenience of online support, online forums and communities dedicated to separated parents can provide a wealth of knowledge and support. Websites like the Aussie Divorce forum or Single Mums Downunder offer a platform for individuals to share their stories, ask questions, and provide advice to one another. Engaging with these online communities can help you feel less alone and provide practical tips from those who have gone through similar situations.
It’s also worth reaching out to your local community centers, churches, or other non-profit organizations that offer support for separated parents. These organizations often host support groups, workshops, and counseling services to help you navigate the challenges of co-parenting and the emotional stress that comes with it.
Lastly, don’t underestimate the power of seeking professional help. Therapists and counselors specializing in separation and divorce can provide valuable guidance and emotional support. They can help you process your feelings, develop coping strategies, and provide tools to navigate co-parenting successfully.
Remember, connecting with support groups and resources is an important step in the healing process. You don’t have to face this challenging time alone. Reach out to the support networks available to you, both online and offline, and take advantage of the guidance, understanding, and encouragement they offer. By connecting with others who understand your journey, you can find the strength and resilience to move forward and create a positive future for yourself and your family.
Creating a robust co-parenting agreement need not be a daunting task. Here are a few tips to guide you through the process:
By using apps designed with Australian separated parents in mind, like Custody X Change, creating a parenting plan becomes simpler, more intuitive, and suited to the unique challenges faced down under. It is their goal to help parents minimize conflict, reduce stress, and keep the focus on what truly matters—the well-being and happiness of their children.
Navigating the financial waters of co-parenting can be challenging, yet it is an essential component for a harmonious collaboration. Thankfully, the digital era has provided co-parents with effective tools to manage shared expenses and maintain budget control. Apps like 2houses have risen to the occasion by offering dedicated finance management systems, seamlessly integrated into their platform. Such apps help separated parents encode expenses into clear categories for easy tracking, ensuring that every costume for the school play or pair of outgrown shoes is accounted for.
They offer the practicality of inputting, settling, and monitoring payments, thus streamlining the process of financial management in co-parenting dynamics. Not only do these apps allow co-parents to manage their budgets, but they also enable the creation and modification of shared parenting plans, which may include projected financial contributions for future expenses. Through this approach, both parents can remain informed and engage in informed decision-making, pivotal in nurturing the well-being of their children.
In the realm of shared parenting, financial management stands as a pillar of effective co-parenting. The stark reality is that a lack of transparency and accountability in handling shared expenses can sow seeds of conflict. Co-parenting apps act as a balm to this potential source of tension by offering a transparent shared register of expenses. These high-tech solutions empower parents to upload receipts, extend payment invites, and even pull up personalized reports, rendering an exhaustive overview of child-related outlays.
This pragmatic approach simplifies financial interactions, encouraging fairness and accountability. By trimming down monetary misunderstandings, these tools effectively pare back the anxiety and stress often associated with managing the myriad costs inherent to raising children post-separation. Plus, they assist in sidestepping awkward conversations about money, making way for a more focused and peaceful co-parenting experience.
If you’re having trouble coming to an agreement regarding parenting matters, at Mediations Australia, we have a team of family lawyers and mediators who can assist you in Canberra, Perth, Adelaide, Melbourne, Sydney, Brisbane, Gold Coast and all other locations in Australia. We also do international family law matters.
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Many people have questions about the mediation process. It is a compulsory step when there are parenting matters in dispute, hence the question, what is child custody mediation?
Separation and divorce are difficult for everyone involved: you, your ex-partner, your children, and your extended family. When emotions are high and the future is uncertain, there can be a lot of disagreement in the decision-making process, which can lead to one or both partners being unwilling to compromise or reach a conclusion that is in the best interests of the children. In this context, mediation is by far the best means of resolving parenting issues, because it can happen quickly, is inexpensive and allows you and your children to get off the emotional merry-go-round and get on with your life.
The Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) in Australia recommends that couples avoid using the courts wherever feasible and instead engage in mediation before going to court. Even if a parenting order is sought through the courts, the applicant will almost certainly be required to show that they have attempted to address their disagreements through mediation before turning to the courts for help. This is particularly the case for child custody mediation.
That said, the Family Law Courts no longer use the term “custody,” instead preferring terminology that refers to how much time a child spends with each parent and how much communication they will have. Both parents are urged to play an active role in their children’s life if it is safe for them to do so. However, reaching an agreement on subjects like health, living arrangements, income, and education can be challenging.
Child custody mediation is a process in which separating or divorcing parents work with a neutral third party, known as a mediator, to develop a parenting plan that outlines the care arrangements for their children. In Australia, mediation is often mandatory before parties can proceed to court for parenting matters, as it is seen as a valuable tool for helping families resolve disputes and make decisions in the best interests of their children.
The primary goal of child custody mediation is to assist parents in creating a plan that prioritizes their children’s needs and well-being, while also taking into account the unique circumstances and preferences of each family. By engaging in mediation, parents can avoid the often costly, time-consuming, and emotionally draining process of litigation, and instead work collaboratively to find solutions that benefit everyone involved.
Child custody mediation in Australia typically follows a structured process designed to facilitate open communication, problem-solving, and agreement between the parties. The key steps in the mediation process include:
Intake and assessment
The mediator will meet with each parent separately to gather information about their situation, concerns, and goals for the mediation. This step helps the mediator understand the family’s dynamics and identify any potential barriers to success.
Joint sessions
The mediator will bring the parents together for one or more joint sessions, during which they will discuss their concerns, priorities, and ideas for the parenting plan. The mediator’s role is to facilitate the conversation, keep the parties focused on their children’s needs, and help them explore options for resolution.
Private caucuses
If needed, the mediator may meet with each parent privately during the joint sessions to discuss sensitive issues or explore potential compromises. These private meetings, known as caucuses, can help the mediator gain a deeper understanding of each party’s perspective and assist them in finding common ground.
Drafting the parenting plan
Once the parents have reached an agreement on the key aspects of their parenting arrangement, the mediator will help them draft a detailed parenting plan. This plan will outline the agreed-upon terms, such as the living arrangements for the children, the division of parental responsibilities, and the processes for making decisions and resolving future disputes.
Review and finalization
The parents will have the opportunity to review the draft parenting plan with their respective lawyers, if desired, and make any necessary revisions. Once the plan is finalized, the parents can choose to have it formalized through a consent order filed with the Family Court of Australia.
Child custody mediation offers numerous benefits for separating or divorcing parents and their children, including:
Child-centered focus
Mediation keeps the focus on the children’s needs and well-being, encouraging parents to prioritize their children’s best interests above their own conflicts or disagreements.
Parental control
Unlike in litigation, where a judge makes the final decision, mediation allows parents to maintain control over the outcome of their parenting arrangement. This can lead to more satisfactory and sustainable agreements, as the parents are more likely to adhere to a plan they have created themselves.
Improved communication
The mediation process promotes open and respectful communication between parents, helping them develop the skills necessary for effective co-parenting. By learning to listen to each other’s concerns and work together to find solutions, parents can lay the foundation for a more positive and cooperative relationship moving forward.
Cost and time savings
Mediation is generally less expensive and time-consuming than going to court, as it can often be completed in a matter of weeks or months, rather than the lengthy process of litigation.
Confidentiality
Mediation sessions are confidential, which means that the discussions and negotiations that take place cannot be used as evidence in court. This confidentiality can create a safer space for parents to express their concerns and explore options without fear of their words being used against them later.
Flexibility
Mediation allows for a more flexible and creative approach to problem-solving than litigation. Parents can explore a wide range of options and tailor their parenting plan to their family’s unique needs and circumstances.
Reduced stress on children
By avoiding the adversarial nature of litigation and working together to create a parenting plan, parents can minimize the stress and emotional impact of the separation on their children.
The mediator plays a crucial role in the child custody mediation process, acting as a neutral facilitator to guide the parents towards a mutually acceptable agreement. Some key responsibilities of the mediator include:
Creating a safe and structured environment
The mediator ensures that the mediation sessions are conducted in a safe, respectful, and productive manner, setting ground rules and managing any potential conflicts or power imbalances between the parties.
Facilitating communication
The mediator helps the parents communicate effectively, encouraging active listening, clarifying misunderstandings, and promoting a focus on their children’s needs.
Assisting with problem-solving
The mediator guides the parents through the process of identifying their concerns, brainstorming options, and evaluating potential solutions. They may offer suggestions or insights based on their experience but will not make decisions for the parents.
Providing information and resources
The mediator can provide the parents with information about the legal and practical aspects of child custody and direct them to additional resources, such as parenting classes or counseling services, as needed.
Maintaining impartiality
The mediator must remain neutral throughout the process, avoiding any bias or preference towards either party. Their role is to support the parents in reaching their own agreement, not to determine what is “fair” or “right.”
Child custody mediation is a valuable process for separating or divorcing parents in Australia, offering a collaborative and child-focused approach to creating parenting plans. By working with a neutral mediator, parents can avoid the adversarial nature of litigation and instead focus on finding solutions that prioritize their children’s well-being.
Mediation offers numerous benefits, including cost and time savings, improved communication, flexibility, and reduced stress on children. By participating in mediation, parents can maintain control over the outcome of their parenting arrangement and lay the foundation for a more positive co-parenting relationship.
As the importance of alternative dispute resolution continues to be recognised in Australia, child custody mediation is likely to play an increasingly vital role in helping families navigate the challenges of separation and divorce. By embracing this process and committing to working together in the best interests of their children, parents can create parenting plans that support their children’s healthy development and promote a more stable and nurturing family environment.
Mediation comes in a variety of forms. The use of Family Relationship Centres, Family Relationships Australia, or other public and community-based services can be cost-effective. However with these organisations there can often be significant delays getting a mediation and if your parenting matter is relatively complex, they may not have the skills to effectively mediate the issues. The other issue can be that once an agreement has been made between you and your former partner, it’s recommended that you make it legally binding. To do this, you will need to ensure that the mediator constructs the agreement that in turn, a family lawyer can draft into a legally enforceable document. We call these consent orders
The alternative to mediation is of course litigation. It’s emotionally draining, expensive and on average will take up to 3 years to resolve.
At Mediations Australia, we have a team of mediators and family lawyers who work collaboratively together.
Mediation isn’t always the best option, especially when family violence is involved. In such circumstances, having the assistance of a lawyer can help you deal successfully with difficult matters and defend your rights. If there are allegations of abuse, your lawyer can help you decide if the issue should be resolved in court rather than through mediation.
The most effective mediation occurs when both parties have first gotten legal guidance regarding their specific situation. You’ll be much better prepared if you know what to expect, what your alternatives are, and how a court might handle your case. By finding this out ahead of time and understanding your legal stance, both parties will be more educated and will have evaluated what they are and aren’t ready to compromise on prior to discussions.
Your lawyer can attend mediation sessions and provide you with advice as the process unfolds. When sensitive and essential matters are discussed, mediation can become emotional or tense, and having your lawyer present guarantees that you have a say and that your interests and those of your children are prioritised throughout.
At Mediations Australia, we’re well-positioned to help because we have both family lawyers and mediators who work together.
Effective mediation requires planning. You can approach mediation with a more open mind, ready to listen and negotiate a mutually satisfactory arrangement, with the help of your lawyer or directly through a mediator. Remember to think about your children and their best interests, as well as the effects of conflict on them. Importantly, you should use mediation to resolve parenting difficulties rather than bringing up other marital issues.
Child custody mediation isn’t always easy, but if you remember that you’re there to find a solution for your children and follow your lawyer’s and mediator’s recommendations, you’ll be far more likely to achieve an agreement that works for both of you.
Living arrangements or relocation, child support, health issues, education and religion, how time will be split between parents and how school holidays will be spent, overseas travel, and the division of payments for things like after-school activities are some of the most common topics that are discussed and resolved in child custody mediation.
When a mediator is chosen, each parent is usually invited to a separate pre-mediation meeting to determine whether the case is appropriate for mediation. If you have hired a lawyer, they will tell you if this is the case and what choices are available to you.
Both parties can then be requested to compose a brief statement to bring to the first meeting, describing their goals for mediation.
Each mediation session can last anything from three hours to a full day. Some of the more serious difficulties may require multiple sessions to overcome. If all parties arrive prepared and eager to compromise, this is certainly hastened.
If no agreement can be reached during mediation, the mediator will issue a certificate. After then, either parent can bring a parenting case to court. If one parent fails to make a sincere effort to address the conflict if a parent fails to appear, or for any other reason, a certificate will be granted.
At Mediations Australia, irrespective of where you are in Australia, we have a team of family lawyers and mediators who can assist you in Canberra, Perth, Adelaide, Melbourne, Sydney, Brisbane and all other locations. WE offer a free, no-obligation consultation with a family lawyer or mediator. Get legal advice from us today!
In Australia, parenting orders are made by a court to determine the arrangements for the care, welfare, and development of a child, including where the child will live and the time they will spend with each parent. These orders can be varied, or changed, if there has been a significant change in circumstances since the original order was made.
To vary a parenting order, you will need to file an application with the court and provide evidence of the change in circumstances that has occurred since the original order was made. This may include changes in the child’s needs, the financial circumstances of the parents, the living arrangements of the parents, or any other relevant factors.
The court will consider the best interests of the child when deciding whether to vary a parenting order. In making this decision, the court will consider the child’s physical, emotional, and educational needs, as well as the capacity of each parent to provide for those needs.
It is important to note that the court will generally only vary a parenting order if it is necessary to do so in the best interests of the child. If you are seeking to vary a parenting order, you should consider seeking legal advice to help you understand your options and the likelihood of success.
Parenting orders are made under the Family Law Act 1975 and are designed to ensure that the best interests of the child are met.
Parenting orders can be made in relation to children of any age, and can cover a range of issues including:
Parenting orders can be made by a court as part of the process of separating or divorcing, or they can be made separately in cases where the parents are not married but have a dispute over the care of the child. If the parents are able to reach an agreement about the arrangements for their child, they can apply to the court for consent orders, which will formalize their agreement. If the parents are unable to reach an agreement, they may need to attend court to have a parenting order made by a judge.
Section 70NBA of the Family Law Act 1975 sets out the legal test that the court must apply when considering whether to vary a parenting order. This section states that the court must not vary a parenting order unless it is satisfied that there has been a change in circumstances since the order was made and that the variation is necessary to meet the best interests of the child.
The court will consider a range of factors when determining whether there has been a change in circumstances, including:
It is important to note that the court will generally only vary a parenting order if it is necessary to do so in the best interests of the child. If you are seeking to vary a parenting order, you should consider seeking legal advice to help you understand your options and the likelihood of success.
Section 70NBB of the Family Law Act 1975 sets out the legal test that the court must apply when considering whether to vary a parenting order that has been made in accordance with a parenting plan. This section states that the court must not vary a parenting order that has been made in accordance with a parenting plan unless it is satisfied that:
The court will consider a range of factors when determining whether there has been a change in circumstances, including:
It is important to note that the court will generally only vary a parenting order if it is necessary to do so in the best interests of the child. If you are seeking to vary a parenting order that has been made in accordance with a parenting plan, you should consider seeking legal advice to help you understand your options and the likelihood of success.
Final parenting orders are court orders that determine the long-term arrangements for the care, welfare, and development of a child. These orders are made in cases where the parties have been unable to reach an agreement about the care of their child, or where there are significant disputes that need to be resolved by a court.
Final parenting orders can be varied if there has been a significant change in circumstances since the order was made. To vary a final parenting order, you will need to file an application with the court and provide evidence of the change in circumstances that has occurred. The court will then consider the best interests of the child when deciding whether to vary the order.
It is important to note that the court will generally only vary a final parenting order if it is necessary to do so in the best interests of the child. If you are seeking to vary a final parenting order, you should consider seeking legal advice to help you understand your options and the likelihood of success.
Mediation is a form of alternative dispute resolution that involves the use of a neutral third party, known as a mediator, to facilitate communication and negotiate a resolution to a dispute. Mediation can be an effective way to resolve conflicts, including disputes over parenting arrangements, as it allows the parties involved to have more control over the outcome of their dispute and to come to an agreement that works for them.
If you are seeking to vary a parenting order, you may be able to use mediation to help resolve your dispute. In this case, you and the other party would attend mediation sessions with a mediator, who would help you communicate and negotiate an agreement about the changes you are seeking to make to the parenting order. If you are able to reach an agreement, the mediator can help you formalize the agreement in a consent order, which can then be filed with the court.
It is important to note that mediation is voluntary, and both parties must agree to participate in order for it to be effective. If you are unable to reach an agreement through mediation, you may need to go to court to have the parenting order varied by a judge.
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When a couple with a child or children divorces or ends their de facto relationship, challenges can develop as a result of the dissolution of the marriage or de facto relationship, with the most likely issue being what will happen to the children. Obviously, in family law disputes, it’s the most important consideration.
Among the most significant things to consider when parents separate are parenting agreements and parenting arrangements after separation, such as who will the children live with, when they will live with them, and where they will live with them.
There is a significant degree of flexibility about these child arrangements. The children may sometimes reside primarily with one parent and only see the other parent on a limited basis. That said, the two most prevalent configurations are as follows:
In practice, it is critical to consider the children and their routine before separation, as well as any changes that have occurred following separation. Consider, the ages of the children, whether or not they attend daycare or school, and extracurricular activities in your planning.
According to anecdotal evidence, children of parents who have divorced amicably and who have put in place suitable workable arrangements for their children’s care and financial support tend to have greater coping skills and resilience than children of parents who have experienced parental conflict or alienation in the past.
It highlights the importance of resolving your family law dispute quickly and it is for this reason that at Mediations Australia, we’re early-resolution focused with both family lawyers and mediators ready to help you.
There can be major delays in the following areas when there is a parental disagreement about which parent the children should live with or spend time with.
For an interim hearing, expect to wait between 3 to 8 months.
The time it takes to conduct a trial and obtain final rulings governing the custody and visitation of the children might range from 2 to 3.5 years, or even more, in some situations.
Following a hearing, it typically takes a further 4 months for the Court to issue a decision on each case.
In light of the lengthy delays in the courts, and in the event that parents are unable to reach an agreement on the children’s arrangements, we encourage parents to seek private family dispute resolution or mediation in order to try to achieve an agreement. Family dispute resolution normally is without the parties’ lawyers being present, while mediation can occur with or without the parties’ lawyers also participating.
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That said, in order to make the most of the chance to discuss their situation and reach an agreement, we recommend that each party seek independent legal advice prior to engaging in family dispute resolution or mediation. Our family lawyers at Mediations Australia can help in this regard.
When the parties reach an agreement, they can formalise their parenting arrangement by completing and filing a Form 11 Application for Consent Orders, which can be used to address solely children’s issues or both children and financial difficulties, respectively.
To establish agreement on financial concerns exclusively, the parties can use Form 11 Application for Consent Orders, which they can complete and file without seeking orders involving parenting.
Restraining orders, which are known by different names depending on which Australian state you live in, may or may not be extended to include the children, and they are not an impediment to the parents making arrangements for the children to spend time with the other parent when they are not living with them.
A restraining order will almost always contain a provision stating that the order will not be violated if the other parent follows the terms of a parenting order or parenting plan (although this must be checked carefully to ensure that it does); and will almost always contain a provision stating that the order will not be violated if the other parent follows the terms of a parenting order or parenting plan (but this must be checked carefully to ensure that it does).
The party who is seeking a restraining order may prefer to have it extended to include the children, or they may wish to have it denied. Exceptions can be included if the parties include the children, and they can state that the restraining order will not be violated if the parties communicate via the following methods ( SMS, text message, or email).
Sometimes, one parent will make claims against the other parent, alleging that the children are at risk of harm or have already been exposed to harm as a result of the other parent’s actions, such as:
In this case, the court will take a careful approach and act in the best interests of the children.
Creating a parenting plan is beneficial for the following four reasons:
Unlimited modifications. You can send your plan to your lawyer for comments and make any necessary adjustments.
A plan is an agreement between two or more people. An Order is a legally binding agreement that is filed with the court and treated as a formality. The difficulty with having an agreement rather than an order is that if one party decides not to follow by the agreement, there is nothing that can be done to ‘turn the ship around.’
Whenever a court order is in place and something goes wrong, such as when one parent fails to comply with the orders, the other parent has the option of breaching the order or requesting that the courts intervene and aid in more extreme instances.
It is necessary to register for Child Support if you have a child who is under the age of eighteen. Child Support is a bare minimum payment towards the expense of rearing a child, and it is calculated according to a formula established by the Child Support Agency (CSA). If you wish to handle the additional costs of raising a child, such as schooling, medical expenditures, and other expenses, you can pair your Parenting Plan with a Binding Child Support Agreement, which will provide additional certainty to financial duties.
Everyone wants the best for their children, and this is understandable. When it comes to issues involving children, the Family Courts prioritise the best interests of the children over all other considerations.
Despite the fact that it may appear straightforward, it is common for separated parents to have very diverse beliefs about what type of arrangements are in their children’s best interests. These types of disagreements concerning child-rearing, sometimes known as ‘parenting disputes,’ may be extremely stressful for both the children and their parents.
Frequently, these disagreements develop after a couple has separated and realised that their parenting techniques or priorities are drastically different. The perception of the other parent as a potential danger to the children can arise at any time for one or both parents.
When parents reach an agreement, it is critical that the agreement is documented in a formal manner, just as it would be with any other legal arrangement. In most cases, this will prevent both parties (as well as the children) from having to go through the entire procedure again and again.
Fortunately, the Family Law Act provides parents with two options for achieving this goal: a Parenting Plan and a Consent Order.
A parenting plan is a more informal document that must be signed and dated by both parents in order to be effective. The contents of a parenting plan can include items such as:
In spite of the fact that parents can create a parenting plan on their own, we urge that a parenting plan be drafted by a lawyer, or at the very least reviewed by a lawyer. Some sections of the parenting plan may have unforeseen repercussions, have loopholes, or just be insufficiently detailed.
If you have been requested to sign a parenting plan, you should consult with a lawyer before proceeding.
Parenting plans do not require the involvement of the court system and are frequently less expensive and faster. The disadvantage of a parenting plan is that if it is violated, you will not be able to enforce it in Court and will be forced to start the Court procedure over from the beginning again.
If you go to court after entering into a parenting plan, the Judge will have to look at what the parenting plan states in order to determine your rights. For example, if one spouse has violated the parenting arrangement, the Judge may enquire as to why this has occurred. Alternatively, if one parent is requesting Court Orders that are diametrically opposed to the parenting plan that they had previously agreed to, the Judge may enquire as to why.
Consent Orders are the alternative option for formally establishing parenting arrangements in a legal sense.
Whenever you go to Court, what you are really doing is requesting a Judge to issue particular Court Orders on your behalf. The application to the Court can be brought jointly by both parents if they both agree on the Orders that should be made. The Court will typically issue these Orders if you have submitted all of the relevant information and your request is in the best interests of the children, as well as being fair and reasonable in nature.
In order to do so, you must prepare an Application for Consent Orders in addition to the proposed Order that you wish the Court to issue. Preparing a proposed Order can be complicated, so we recommend that you consult with a lawyer who can assist you with this process.
Parents will receive a Court Order in the form and conditions that they have requested after the Order is issued.
It is possible that court orders will be rigid, which for some parents may be a positive thing.
Parents can amend the arrangements outlined in the Parenting Orders if they come to an agreement. But if they don’t come to an agreement, the Order will remain in effect. If you have a Consent Order, you will not be able to return to Court unless you can demonstrate to the Judge that there has been a significant change in your circumstances or the child’s circumstances since the order was issued.
Furthermore, if one of the parents violates the Order, the repercussions might be severe. If the parent (the one who did not violate the Order) believes that the other parent has violated the Orders, he or she can file an Application with the Court. Judges have the authority to issue a wide range of orders to put things right, including fines, make-up arrangements, and even modifying the original Court Orders entirely.
The disadvantage of filing an Application for Consent Order is the financial and time commitment it entails.
This formal approach is more time-consuming and expensive than creating a more casual parenting plan informally.
Once your application has been submitted, you will be required to wait for the Court to consider your case, which may take some time. It is also possible that the Court will not be willing to grant the Order that you seek.
The bottom line is that every situation is unique, and different situations need the use of diverse tactics. Despite the fact that parenting plans can provide greater flexibility at a lesser cost, they lack the ability to be enforced. However, while Consent Orders are more expensive and complex, they provide a higher level of enforceability in exchange.
At Mediations Australia, we can assist in all parenting dispute matters. We can assist you and your former partner negotiate and we can then assist in the drafting of both parenting plans and consent orders.
At Mediations Australia, we have a team of family lawyers and mediators who can assist you in Canberra, Perth, Adelaide, Melbourne, Sydney and all other locations in Australia. We also do international family law matters.